Blue In The Heaven Of Odds

The process of a relationship always starts with friendship and friendship lasts for a lifetime, only if we have chosen the right person to be with. And, from friendship to connecting hearts is a journey of togetherness, fight, immortal love, trust, understanding, etc. But, the most important thing in a relationship is TIME. Being loyal and dedicated is our choice.

But these days love stories tend to come with an expiry date. Relationships are growing toxic, love is fading, and one is trying to control the other by the means of torturing and abusing but they aren’t able to understand the reality. It’s a reality that love isn’t a game to be played. It’s within us and it will stay till we return to dust. Later when we would have lost the charm in our life we look back and realize what we’ve lost, things that seemed to be simple then but complicated now.

Finding that one person in a world full of toxic love and toxic people is getting difficult. The one with whom we can spend our whole life, the one who would love us for who we are, the one who wouldn’t want us to change, the one with whom we can be just us, the one with whom the world would seem to be a better place and a little hope on the love that is “To love and be loved” phrase would be perfect.

How do people hate love when it’s already in them? We live in a world where we see love everywhere. Humans, as well as nature, know how to express their love for each other. We can talk but the animals and the birds can’t. Maybe their way of expressing love is different from ours. Love is a never-ending process. It exists within every living being. The ocean waves love the sand, Plants love the soil, Potato fries go perfectly with the tomato sauce, the moon loves the dark black sky, the dog loves his/her humans, the cat loves milk, etc. Love in itself is crazy and different. But wherever there is love, there is this little spark of jealousy. And, that jealousy sometimes spoils the whole relationship. So, further, you’ll see how love wins and jealousy loses.

Let me narrate to you a short story about two couple Parakeets. They were neighbourhood and their lifestyle was similar to that of humans. 

Mr and Mrs Blue were the loveliest couples. They cared for each other, loved each other, understood each other, gave time to each other, feed each other and wherever they went they were always together. 

But their neighbourhood Mr and Mrs Yellow were really jealous. 

(That exactly happens with humans too when a couple would be happy in their life. Society can't tolerate their happiness, they would do anything to break up the beautiful bond between the two.)

Mr and Mrs Yellow would always trouble and would do anything to disturb the peaceful life of Mr and Mrs Blue. 

Whenever Mr and Mrs Blue would be sitting together enjoying nature Mr Yellow always interrupted in between. 

( Similarly when a third person gets involved between the two beautiful couples, the relationship between the two stands complicated )

Mr Yellow would hit Mr Blue and would try to flirt with Mrs Blue. These two couples Mr and Mrs Blue tolerated Mr Yellow for a couple of weeks but when it crossed all the limits. Mrs Blue started playing the role of a strong head woman who couldn't anymore tolerate this nuisance by Mr Yellow. 

And, she used to pull his tail and hit him hard and shoo him away. She did that every time even when Mr Yellow fought with her husband. She was the shield to her husband. She wouldn't tolerate anyone messing up with her husband.

( That's how our Indian Women are fierce, strong-headed, straightforward. They can literally screw you up when things go wrong or if you cross the limits. For them what they owe is theirs you can not even see it nor touch it. For example Their boyfriend or their husband )

That's how Mr and Mrs Blue shooed away the odds from their life. Mr and Mrs Yellow now would never interrupt anymore. 

( Similarly when we aren't happy in our life. We try to interrupt and find peace by disturbing others' peace. )

That was exactly with Mr and Mrs Yellow they weren't happy together they always fought with each other, yelled at each other and even used to hit each other.

So, to find peace they tried to disturb their neighbours but ultimately they were thrown out. Mr and Mrs Blue’s love overpowered Mr and Mrs Yellow’s jealousy.

The society in which they lived is the same as humans. We always unnecessarily interfere in others' matters even if they don’t need us to. We judge people quickly. We spoil things trying to make things right. We sometimes overdo things for a little bit of credit. Doing all this won’t lead us to heaven nor would we find peace. We should always focus on and prioritize our family. Stay in unity, in love, and support each other, understand each other’s mindset, and mostly stay connected.