How To Handle An Introverted Friend?

Being an introvert can be hard, but being an introvert’s friend can be even harder. They, of course, can be a creature of high intelligence, brilliant problem-solving capabilities, unique talents, and much more, but every positive comes with its own negative.

Although friendly, they can sometimes be quiet, moody, and in need of their personal space. Their feelings can be complex and they may not involve a large social group, having only a few friends.

So, if you have an introverted friend, here are a few tips to keep in mind when dealing with them :

1.Donot assume they are shy 

Though a few can be, not all introverts are shy and they hate being called so.

Introverts have thoughts that are complex and hard to explain, so they often need time to arrange their thoughts into words. They put a lot of effort into their words and can be excellent in speaking skills.

2.Donot force them to socialize 

Although socializing can be a great opportunity to form ties with other people but for an introvert, it is trying. They need a calm environment to process things while being in a social setting can be mentally draining. They need time to recharge.

3.Donot force them to say 

Feelings are hard to explain and for an introvert it’s complex. Though they are known to be highly self-aware, they sometimes find it hard to explain what they are feeling. So in times like this don’t force them to say, as it will only make them uncomfortable. Instead try giving them some time, to finally speak up.

4.Donot enter their personal space 

Introverts like to perform their tasks alone and don’t believe in the concept of sharing too much information. They have perfect boundaries defining their public and private life and hate it when people try to cross them.

5.Stay Loyal

Introverts are the people who find it hard to trust. They often take time to fully build trust in someone and once sure, they are extremely loyal and expect others to be. So if you have successfully gained an introvert’s trust, take it seriously and do not lose it by gossiping behind their back.