Question To Human Mentality

During the college days if not the school days during my time, there used to be these handsome guys with an attractive physique. And girls like me with thick-framed spectacles specifically termed as “typical nerds” used to watch them stealthily. Obviously, these boys would never have even just an eye on us, they are indeed the lucrative prey to the lustful vultures of our college.

These lustful vultures are the most beautiful girls with their decked-up clothing, and every guy would dream for their clutches since their call refers to uncommitted entry into their bosoms before long. Nevertheless, my type of girls would stand nowhere in this rather they are just not smart enough to stand in comparison as tagged. There is no denying the fact that physical need is necessary to be quenched, every time suppressing the desire just because we come from a very conservative stringent family and are not allowed to have sex before marriage is not a very logical decision of the society I guess. Losing virginity before you’re tying the knot with someone is flagged as a spoilt

Casanova attitude in the middle-class, such retrogressive mentality that would always question against the sexuality of those living in couples, at the same time, unaware of the fact that their boy is taking his girl for a sleepover and is submitting to the vulture’s clutch. Your society is always ready to throw compliments on you if you are not having an issue within three years of your marriage, they are ready to abandon you once you willingly marry a person of a different religion, they are there to turn other people’s ears with toxic reviews about how you being a girl have switched partners three times only because if you are not happy with your marriage is not something they really care about.

They would have specifically loved you, had you suppressed your desire to crave happiness with your true partner and just have welcomed the suppression and unhappiness your previous partners might have given you. They want you to become doctor, engineer or anyway a well-paid professional to switch over to luxury class but the mentality, no, that will always be so mean to influence if you are a girl from such a family but with progressive thinking.

So much and so all we remain suppressed by our family, we get influenced, our very own choices are now made of this regressive mentality and we get acquainted with suppressing our desires quite often. There lies an interesting fact, you graduated, you successfully underwent the mentality pressure of your family and now you are being pushed by this family to have some arranged marriage lest society might think other ways.

Here your mindset has been prepared well to share your bed with someone you have not known for long! Well enough, there you find one of these Casanova guys of your college metamorphosed into a well-dressed family guy attaining your house along with their parents and then when you are allowed to have few minutes talk with the guy you are going to get married with, he told you that those vultures they so much lulled in college days are capable of time-pass only and girls like you are the wife materials they would love to showcase rest of the life….

What would you feel...lost to the middle-class mentality or lost to the human mentality?