Say Yes to No

I think everyone can relate to this topic once we get to know the real meaning behind the quote. we all in our professional and personal life came across situations where we want to say NO but can't say due to circumstances we found ourselves in.

Boss is telling us to do stay extra hours to do some extra work but you can't say No, we all can relate to this but is it really so scary to say No!?. Refusing your boss order can be detrimental but making your mind unhappy can be fatal hence it is always better to say No when you think your mind and heart both don't want to say YES.

As a parent many times we need to say NO to our children but we end up saying YES, which in short term gives happiness to our children but in future those things can make us pay, there are many examples that can relate to this.

How does saying NO helps you; Here are few examples in which denying is better than obeying:

My friend went to a birthday party of his friend and he doesn't drink alcohol but his friends insisted my friend to drink but he refused by saying NO to drinks in that way he stick to his decision which in turn saved him from the imbibing a bad habit which is very easy to imbibe if he has not had guts to say NO.

One of my friends said no to his boss just because his boss was asking him to stay at the office for an extra hour or so to do some work, but he rightly said NO to his boss because he had to go home and spend time with his family. In this particular situation for sometime his boss would have felt bad but when my friend explained his reason to him all the things were fine.

Many times we say Yes unknowingly but saying NO with proper reason is the best way when your heart and mind don't want to say YES.